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(INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC)

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HELEN DALLIMORE (NARRATES):
18 singles

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from across the country...

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Will you marry me?

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..took the ultimate
leap of faith.

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(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)
Let's go.

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This is what I've been looking for.

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This is a true love story
right here.

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I don't wanna be with anyone
that gets arrested.

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Sorry. I'm late, everyone.

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He was chewing gum
sort of with his mouth open.

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Alessandra's intimacy week.

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Definitely has brought Mel
closer to Luke.

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..helped some couples
progress their relationships.

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How was it?

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But things stalled for Rebecca.

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Who doesn't wanna try?
It's just all lip service.

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Before Alessandra held Steve
to account.

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Really tread lightly.
I don't take to this well.

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And in a dramatic turn of events,
Brook made a sudden exit.

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(JOYFUL SCREAMS)

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Only to make a surprise
return to the dinner party

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just 24 hours later.

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I think you're a very rude bitch.

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Brook went on the attack.
This is enough.

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Shut up, Alissa. Loser.

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(LAUGHS)
Oh.

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Leaving her husband
isolated and confused.

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And then...

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..a shock allegation
about Danny preferring Gia.

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There was nothing that I ever said.

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Why would I make that up?

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Caused Bec to spiral...

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..unsure whether to believe
her husband or not.

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Did she trust me first?

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Tonight...

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Are you falling in love?

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I think, yeah.

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..love is in the air.

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It's been really good.
That's when the kissing started.

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Made her blush. So... (LAUGHS)

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Some will celebrate
incredible breakthroughs.

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This morning I kissed him.

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As Mel and Luke's
transformation continues...

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We're doing so good.

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I don't even know who you are.

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..the experts unpack the question
on everyone's lips.

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Did you say that, Danny?

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It threw me that she didn't believe
a comment like that.

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Absolutely not.

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You're not gonna gaslight
a woman right now.

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You know what you said.

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You have zero credibility.

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She wouldn't make that up, dude.

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And...

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Obviously, yeah, got carried away.

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The experts call out
Brook's bad behaviour.

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In all my years working
on 'Married at First Sight',

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I have never experienced a woman
be so vicious toward other women.

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(TENSE MUSIC)

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(SOOTHING MUSIC)

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It's the morning
of the second Commitment Ceremony

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of the experiment...

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and our couples are feeling
the shock waves

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of last night's intense
dinner party.

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Glad we dressed up for that.

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I could've gone in my jammies.

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Might as well have. At least
I would've been comfortable.

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That was a wild night.

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I would describe that as unhinged.

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(CHUCKLES)

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A lot of insults thrown
from Bec, Gia,

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Brook towards, you know,
Stella, towards Alissa,

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and it was hard to listen to.

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It did bother me.

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I didn't like it,
but I've definitely felt bad

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for Alissa because, like,

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I just see this girl
that's she's getting slammed,

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and it's pretty intimidating,
I'd imagine.

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I care about what people think.
I care about people's feelings.

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You know?
I don't wanna have this conflict.

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You know?

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(SAD MUSIC)

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Man, if I could sum up
last night's dinner party,

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I feel like it was a pack of wolves
let loose on a village.

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All they wanted to do was come in
and tear everything apart.

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Alissa is really rocked
by the dinner party,

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um, and I just wanna support her
right now.

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Like, it feels crap.

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You know,
this is damage control right now.

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I feel like, you know,
I just need to be the hands

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around her and just to comfort her
because it's been a rough night.

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Oh, god.

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I'm not going to the war zone again.
Last night was enough.

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I put on a front,
and I-I handled it...

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but I'm not doing it again.

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(SAD MUSIC)

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It's mean.

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And if you can't find anything nice
to say about someone,

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just say nothing.

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You don't even know me.
You don't know David.

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I don't have to sell you
this relationship.

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I don't have to sell it to you...

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'cause this is my love story...

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and it's mean.

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(SAD MUSIC)

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Alissa wasn't the only one

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at the receiving end of Brook's
unsolicited attacks.

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Cheers.

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Cheers. Good morning.
Good morning.

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(KISSES)

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Oh, what a night...

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literally.

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In a way, you're just
bringing to her top of mind.

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She's like, "Oh, hang on.

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I didn't get what I want
in this experiment,"

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and it pisses her off.

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I don't know.

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Like, it would be only her
that knows the reasons why.

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Um...

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I don't know.

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Um...

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the funniest thing
that there was no crime.

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There was actually no crime.

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They just needed
to create a drama in,

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out of thin air, and they did it.

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I did have my heart rate up.
Absolutely.

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I'm not psychopath.

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You know, but I do not give power
to people to antagonise me

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in any way, shape, or form.

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If I lower myself
to your standard, I lost.

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Obviously, there's something to,
for her to deal with her,

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with herself internally.

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She's got work...she's got work
to do.

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Work to do.

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This is just childish behaviour.
It's not even worth the aid.

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It's not even worth... the effort.

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That's-that's no good.
That's-that's no good.

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No good. No good.
It's not good.

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No good. No good.
It's not good.

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(TENSE MUSIC)

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Despite Chris's best efforts
during intimacy week,

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Brook left the experiment

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but made a surprise appearance
at last night's dinner party

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with some unfinished business
to attend to.

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The runaway bride returns.

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The runaway returns.

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The funniest thing is-is,
I didn't have a plan

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going into the dinner party
last night.

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I was like, "I'm just gonna
surprise everyone

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and see how the night takes me."

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There were
some crazy emotions yesterday.

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I mean, I was going with a bang,
and I definitely did that.

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You did the whole night.

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We can hear it in the hallways.

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Everyone's, like, crying and shit.

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Oh, really?
Yeah.

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Being called a bully,
I then react to that...

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Mm.

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..which I need to not react to that,
but I can't help it.

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I don't regret having a voice
and speaking my opinion.

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Um, but, at the end of the day,

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obviously, I'm glad that's over
and done with ship sail.

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I'm dropping that now.

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Mm, I don't even know.
I just don't feel it.

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I don't know if Chris is ready
to let this go, um,

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but it doesn't change
anything for me.

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I still feel how I feel,
and I'm not ready for this,

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and he's not either.

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But I still went in here
with 100% effort,

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and it's not like I didn't.

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As Brook looks back on last night,

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an even bigger accusation
came to light

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that rocked the experiment.

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I reached out to Bec this morning
after the dinner party last night,

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ah, just to see where she's at.

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And I said, "How are you going?"
And she said, "Not good.

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You've ruined my relationship.

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I'm devastated. Leave me alone."

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(TENSE MUSIC)

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(INDISTINCT CHATTER)

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Be honest. Be honest, Danny.

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Watch your mouth, girl.
I'm not watching.

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Watch your mouth.
I'm-I'm being honest.

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But you don't lie about me. Oh, no.
But you said that.

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Don't ever do that.
But you said that.

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Just... oh, yeah.

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"In the outside world,
you would be my type,"

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that is what Danny said.

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What did...won't she'd be in love?

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(TENSE MUSIC)

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Brook obviously
was on one last night.

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Brook said it, told her not to.
Brook said what she said.

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And now for some reason,

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this is all my fault
that they're not...they're not good.

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Can you make that make sense

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for your man saying something
Sunday night drunk

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in front of me and a girl,
and the girl brings it up?

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So, why is this my fault?

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I just think it's Bec's
insecurities coming out

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because she's trying to protect her
own relationship.

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She's acting
as if I lured Danny in and said,

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"Do you wanna sleep with me
in the bathroom?"

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I have no interest in Danny.

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He's disgusting. Uh, yuck.

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Their relationship's a bit fake
and full of it.

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So, she'll put it
on other people's relationships.

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Why don't you look
at your own relationship?

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Bec's gonna bring it up tonight

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and she's going to use me
as a way to,

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I guess, bring them back together
in a way so that she can blame

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someone else other than her
and Danny.

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Because you're scared
to really face the fact

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that maybe he isn't into you.

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I hope at the Commitment Ceremony
they're open

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and they actually tell us
what's going on.

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Danny's a liar
and that's all there is to it.

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He's-he's going around doing
everything but being accountable

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and I'm sick of it.

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And she's a fool, a total fool.

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Danny was frustrated with Bec
for believing Gia last night

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and slept in a separate apartment.

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Gia and Brook have definitely
set out to rock my relationship,

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and they are succeeding.

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I've not felt this low... for years.

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Gia and Brook have made this up.
It's not true.

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I know it's not true.
I knew it wasn't true last night.

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He would never have said
that to her ever.

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Ever.

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Don't accuse me
of doing things like that

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because there's-there's no truth
in that whatsoever.

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I need to ride or die.

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You should trust me first.

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I knew that you were gonna do this,
I'm done.

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(SAD MUSIC)

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Oi-oi, what's going on?

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How are you?

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Not the best. How are you?

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I'm alright. I'm always good.

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Ah. How was your night?

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Shocking. How was yours?

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You want me to start?

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Yeah.

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OK.

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Last night when Gia whispered to me
at the dinner party

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that you had supposedly told her
on Saturday night

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that on the outside world...

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she would be,
you would wanna be with her,

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I didn't believe her for a second,
at all.

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And then when you didn't wanna
come back and wouldn't speak to me,

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I was like,
"Well, what have I done?"

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'Cause I had such a bad time.

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And then I was like, so, I'm gonna
have to lay here by myself

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in this room, you won't speak to me.

255
00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:24,760
(SOBS)

256
00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:27,480
That was a mad one.

257
00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,160
And she was crying now,
and she almost made me feel

258
00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:30,480
like I was in the wrong.

259
00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,040
What's all that about?

260
00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,240
You got up and you stormed out.
Yeah, I did.

261
00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:38,240
I was like, "Oh, my god.
Is this...is this a thing?"

262
00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,120
And then I brought myself
back down to earth

263
00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:41,720
and thought, "No, it's not."

264
00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:42,760
You-you...

265
00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,680
I'm obviously not the man you think
I am for you to believe that.

266
00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,120
Oh, Danny, stop it.

267
00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,800
That's what I believe.
And I have to say the truth, Bec.

268
00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,160
This hurts me as well.
Do not think I'm hurting.

269
00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,240
It was like a dagger
through the heart

270
00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,240
for you to believe her for 1ms...

271
00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:57,920
I know.
..and to your husband.

272
00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:02,320
You threw...you threw our trust away

273
00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:06,480
for her to believe at that
blatant lie over her husband,

274
00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,280
um, it just hurt and I just needed
space, simple as that.

275
00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,680
Like what I said
at the end of the aisle

276
00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,840
when-when I married you was like,

277
00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,280
the number one thing I want
in a relationship

278
00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,360
and with a wife are two things,
trust and ride or die.

279
00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,280
Like, because the...

280
00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:24,600
I am ride or die.

281
00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,600
..the-the ride or die
is not believing a lie about me

282
00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,640
for one second.

283
00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:28,720
That's ride or die.

284
00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,480
I view women how I view my mum.

285
00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,800
My mum would never ever betray
my dad, not in a month of Sundays,

286
00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:37,840
not if a thousand people who were
saying bad things about him.

287
00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,120
She'd never believe it
for one second.

288
00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,440
And that's how I-I view
women off my mum

289
00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:44,280
because that's what I grew up
watching.

290
00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:45,880
That's what I'm looking
for in a woman,

291
00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,440
a ride or die like my mum.

292
00:13:47,560 --> 00:13:49,120
So, what does this mean for us?

293
00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,000
I don't but I honestly
like to be honest,

294
00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,840
my head scrambled with it.

295
00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,880
Like, with all due respect, like,
you did betray me in that moment.

296
00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:56,920
Ah.

297
00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,960
Like, what do you want me to do?

298
00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,120
Sit here and lie and say,
"Everything's fine, Bec.

299
00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,440
Everything's fine. I don't care."
I'm done.

300
00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:06,200
What I need from Bec now
is to prove to me

301
00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,560
that she is ride or die,

302
00:14:07,680 --> 00:14:08,960
and I don't know
how she's gonna do that.

303
00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,440
She's just gotta come up
with something.

304
00:14:10,560 --> 00:14:12,960
(SAD MUSIC)

305
00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,640
Go. Go. Yeah. (SOBS)

306
00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,560
(SAD MUSIC)

307
00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:19,080
I just don't know how...

308
00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,000
A comment which is a lie...

309
00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,320
that I believed for a minute...

310
00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,320
and then rectified...

311
00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:39,600
could take us from being
where we were to where we are now.

312
00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,600
(SOBS)

313
00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,640
(SAD MUSIC)

314
00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,040
I feel like we worked so hard
to get to where we are.

315
00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,480
And now I just feel like
it's ruined.

316
00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,520
(TENSE MUSIC)

317
00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:11,240
Our couples are getting ready
for tonight's Commitment Ceremony.

318
00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,640
The stakes have never been higher.

319
00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,480
We are lions,
and, you know, lions don't worry

320
00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:20,920
about what mice have to say.

321
00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,600
Can I see a smile at all?

322
00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,320
I don't feel like smiling today.

323
00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,280
It's a sad day.
Mm.

324
00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,520
What's the aftermath
of what you guys have chosen to do?

325
00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,520
Like, they made a choice last night.

326
00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,000
And so, are they happy
with how things have gone?

327
00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,040
(TENSE MUSIC)

328
00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:49,320
Will they stay
or leave the experiment?

329
00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,360
(TENSE MUSIC)

330
00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,480
But for one couple,

331
00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,120
there has been a complete
180 overnight.

332
00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:01,920
We went through
some challenges in intimacy week.

333
00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,920
It's a bit rough around the edges.

334
00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:05,960
Mm-hm. That's fair.

335
00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,840
But there were some
really beautiful moments as well.

336
00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,520
Grayson and I really did tie up
our intimacy week

337
00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:13,920
in quite a beautiful way.

338
00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,520
We have shared our first kiss,
which was really beautiful.

339
00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,040
Um, yeah,
it kind of naturally happened.

340
00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,480
I just sort of lent in,
and...and...and here we are.

341
00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,080
(RELAXING MUSIC)

342
00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:25,120
I'll see you there.

343
00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,520
Hopefully,
not as many fireworks tonight.

344
00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:28,600
He's hoping.

345
00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,560
Should we get this show
on the road, say goodbye to you?

346
00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,760
See you there.
Bye.

347
00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:36,760
(SMOOCHES)

348
00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,440
Wanna get in there?

349
00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,680
You look amazing.
You too.

350
00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:40,720
Yeah.

351
00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,200
You look-look like a good snack.

352
00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,480
(TENSE MUSIC)

353
00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:58,960
Greetings, gents.
Hello. How are you?

354
00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:00,000
Well.
Hello, boys.

355
00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:01,920
Good evening.
How are you doing?

356
00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,480
Good to see you all.

357
00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,520
(TENSE MUSIC)

358
00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:40,600
How're you going?

359
00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,360
Good, how are you?
Great.

360
00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,280
(TENSE MUSIC)

361
00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,360
(EXHALES)

362
00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:00,320
Well, welcome everybody
to the second Commitment Ceremony.

363
00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:05,080
And if last night's dinner party
is anything to go by,

364
00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,440
tonight we have a lot to get into.

365
00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,000
Now, just a heads up,

366
00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:15,600
our lovely expert Alessandra
has indeed

367
00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,600
lost most of her voice.

368
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,480
And therefore tonight,

369
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:24,280
uh, you may hear a limited
amount from her.

370
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,480
And if she feels
the need to jump in,

371
00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:28,680
she certainly will try.

372
00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:32,760
First up on the couch...

373
00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,800
Alissa and David.

374
00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,840
(APPLAUSE)

375
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,760
Hello.
Hello.

376
00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,240
How are you two? Oh.

377
00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:49,560
Last night was pretty
heavy going for the two of you.

378
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,960
Yeah. Absolutely.

379
00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,120
What was it like for you?

380
00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,040
Oh, I'm just, uh...

381
00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,600
I'm pretty disgusted.

382
00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,560
(TENSE MUSIC)

383
00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,720
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

384
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,200
Last night was pretty
heavy going for the two of you.

385
00:19:18,360 --> 00:19:19,520
Yeah. Absolutely.

386
00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,560
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

387
00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,880
What was it like for you, Alissa?

388
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,880
(TENSE MUSIC)

389
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,480
Oh, I'm just, uh...

390
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:39,760
I'm pretty disgusted.

391
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:44,000
Just the disrespect...

392
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:50,120
the low-grade comments,
high school mean girl energy.

393
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:58,440
It was yelling, screaming,
storming off, banging on the table.

394
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,960
It was toxic behaviour.

395
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:06,640
Last night was really hurtful,
like really disgusting,

396
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,680
disrespectful behaviour,
and I am just gutted.

397
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,920
I just didn't wanna be here today.

398
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,000
I did not wanna walk into this room

399
00:20:17,120 --> 00:20:19,200
but I would be letting
my husband down

400
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,760
if I didn't show up for him
and if I didn't stand up for myself.

401
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,720
She was right.
I was so harsh, isn't it?

402
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,320
What is it about your relationship

403
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,160
that you think is getting
under people's skin?

404
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,680
I don't know,

405
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,520
and I don't know
where the comments are coming from.

406
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,880
(TENSE MUSIC)

407
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,120
I haven't said one nasty thing

408
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:49,080
towards any of these people
sitting in this room.

409
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,800
If there was a reason to come at me,
come at me but talk to me.

410
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,320
Let's resolve this as adults.

411
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,600
Like, we're not
in the high school playground.

412
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,280
Like, let's just talk.

413
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,640
Yeah, it's really hurtful.

414
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,800
Yeah.
Yeah.

415
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:12,400
Alissa, I need to apologise
to you because my delivery

416
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,520
of what I said
to you was unacceptable.

417
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,880
The way I spoke to you last night,

418
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,960
I need to take accountability
for how cruel I was to both of you.

419
00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:27,080
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

420
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,360
I'm sorry for the way
that I spoke to you last night.

421
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,560
It wasn't acceptable.

422
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,120
It was mean and I can assure you
it won't happen again.

423
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,840
And I'm really genuinely sorry
to you both that that's the way

424
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,120
that I came at you.

425
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,120
I-I mean, it's yeah.

426
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,240
What's-what's your response to that?

427
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,080
I just, I'm lost for words.

428
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,640
I actually don't even wanna sit
at a table with half of the people

429
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,440
in this room
because I'm embarrassed.

430
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,240
I'm embarrassed to sit at the table

431
00:22:01,360 --> 00:22:04,200
and share space
with the disrespectful,

432
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,520
the cattiness, the fire starting,
the interrogation.

433
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,600
That is just immature behaviour

434
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,760
and I'm just not here for it
and I'm not standing for it.

435
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,080
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

436
00:22:18,120 --> 00:22:22,040
The three of us
observing you were so impressed.

437
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,120
Watching the two of you
work as a team,

438
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:31,080
not buy into the comments,
stand your ground as a couple.

439
00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:33,640
You turned toward each other.

440
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,960
You supported each other
and you were a real team.

441
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,000
(SOOTHING MUSIC)

442
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,360
You showed real dignity and grace.

443
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,280
It was so incredibly impressive.

444
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,680
So, credit to you both.

445
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,080
At the end of the day,
you can talk crap,

446
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,000
throw all those stupid insults
all you want,

447
00:22:57,120 --> 00:22:58,040
it doesn't mean anything.

448
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,520
But if you're gonna come at my wife

449
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,360
and, you know, talk about women
that way, it says a lot about you.

450
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,440
Disgusting.

451
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,280
You know,
she's-she's a sensitive person.

452
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,880
She comes across a very bubbly,
outspoken.

453
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,360
But when you get to know her,
she's really a sensitive soul.

454
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,600
So, I think she didn't deserve that.

455
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,640
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

456
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,680
You know, I'll thank myself
for sitting on this couch

457
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,560
next to my husband and, you know,
standing up for us

458
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,760
and what we've built along the way.

459
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,920
So, things seem
to be going pretty well.

460
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,520
Honestly, fantastic.

461
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,600
I feel like last night
made us even stronger.

462
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,280
Closer together again.
It just made us stronger.

463
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,600
It's like nothing's gonna stop us.
Just go away.

464
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,840
Yeah.
Don't burst a bubble.

465
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,240
Like, just leave us alone.

466
00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:47,440
Like, we're here because we are
totally into each other

467
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,040
and we are giving this 100%.

468
00:23:53,120 --> 00:23:55,560
I'm actually falling for this man.

469
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,080
I'm falling hard for him.

470
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,840
(JOYOUS MUSIC)

471
00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:01,200
I feel the exact same way.

472
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,120
We are definitely
on that cusp of, uh...

473
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:05,160
It's so good.

474
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,760
..of falling in love and it's crazy,
it's crazy to actually say that.

475
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,560
And I have so much
more to offer her, and, yeah,

476
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,640
I'm just grateful that, you know,
you guys match us together.

477
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,280
And, yeah, I'm definitely
falling for her for sure.

478
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,320
(CALM MUSIC)

479
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,000
So, with that said,
we're gonna go to a decision.

480
00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:27,640
Let's start with you, David.

481
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,680
Oh, OK. I knew it was coming at me.

482
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,800
Well, I mean,
I've already said a little bit

483
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,080
of what I wanna say
about this woman.

484
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,880
She is an amazing woman,
and I can't wait to see

485
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,880
how the rest of this
experience goes,

486
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,080
and I am really falling for her.

487
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,840
So, with that said...

488
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,840
Hey.

489
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:48,360
Pretty obvious.
Strong statement.

490
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:49,760
(APPLAUSE)
Love it.

491
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,600
Thank you. And to you, Alissa.

492
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,800
I'm not here for the BS,

493
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,520
and I'm here
to really test this relationship

494
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,280
and to find something rock solid.

495
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,360
This man keeps showing up
for me every day

496
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,960
and I really am falling for you.

497
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,440
So, stay with him, love heart.

498
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,440
(APPLAUSE)

499
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,840
Look, the two of you,
just keep doing what you're doing.

500
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,520
Keep turning toward each other.

501
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,200
Wherever you can, block out
that external noise

502
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,000
because as you've said,
what's important is what's here

503
00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:22,040
between the two of you.

504
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,240
So, continue focusing on that.
Thank you.

505
00:25:24,360 --> 00:25:25,280
Thanks a lot.
Good on you, guys.

506
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,480
Appreciate that.
Well done. Thank you.

507
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,520
(APPLAUSE)

508
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,000
Thank you.
Sure.

509
00:25:34,120 --> 00:25:37,000
(UPLIFT MUSIC)

510
00:25:37,120 --> 00:25:39,720
Our next couple up on the couch...

511
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:42,640
Mel and Luke.

512
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,520
(APPLAUSE)

513
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,560
Hey.

514
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,600
Oh, I've been looking
forward to this.

515
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:49,640
Hello you two.

516
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,080
We've been looking forward
to talking to you guys too.

517
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,360
I bet.

518
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,040
It's a whole new couple right here.

519
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,560
Well, I don't wanna speak
for both of us

520
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,000
but I feel like a different person.

521
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,960
You look...
Yeah.

522
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,880
..and sound like a different person.

523
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,360
I don't even know who you are.

524
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,240
I don't know either.
It's so crazy, isn't it?

525
00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:08,760
(CHUCKLES)

526
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,920
What feels different for you, Mel?

527
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,400
Well, I just feel more positive.

528
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,680
Mm-hm.
I feel lighter.

529
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,280
Mm.
And do you know why?

530
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,360
It's because, like, obviously,
at the first Commitment Ceremony,

531
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,600
like, I listened to everything
you all said to me.

532
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,520
I acknowledged your advice.
I took it on board.

533
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,600
I changed my attitude.

534
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,280
I changed my outlook, and that's why
it's changed our relationship.

535
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,760
We're doing so good.

536
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,400
(RELAXING MUSIC)

537
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,080
We just have, just been
more curious with each other,

538
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,200
more open-minded.

539
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,240
When we're speaking to each other,
we've got eye contact.

540
00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:45,600
Just keep in mind, like, us,
a week ago,

541
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:46,760
we didn't even look eye, you know.

542
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,320
Yeah.
Oh, we know.

543
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,920
Yeah.

544
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,880
Kind to each other,
positive with each other.

545
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,720
Love that.
We love it too.

546
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:57,960
(LAUGHTER)
Seriously.

547
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,360
Yeah.

548
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,680
Yes.
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

549
00:27:02,120 --> 00:27:04,200
Mel, I'm so impressed with you.

550
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,160
Thank you, John.
I really appreciate that.

551
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,640
You-you had checked out.

552
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,480
I was.

553
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,560
You listened and you let go of,

554
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,920
I guess,
all your sort of expectations.

555
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,080
And you said,
"I'm going to begin now."

556
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,680
Yeah.
We-we really, really did reset.

557
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,960
We drew a line in the sand,
and we said...

558
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,000
Yeah.

559
00:27:28,120 --> 00:27:29,600
.."We're not going back
and looking at anything

560
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,640
that's happened in the past."

561
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,720
Yes, we cannot forget
what's happened

562
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,120
but there's no point
talking about it.

563
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,080
So, we tried to keep it super light.

564
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,120
Super light. Yeah.

565
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,360
Super positive and that's about it.

566
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,200
Mel, you intrigued me
when I first met you

567
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:47,360
because you talked to me
about pink and blue jobs

568
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,280
in a relationship,
which I'd never heard of before.

569
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,680
Do you understand
what we're talking about?

570
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,360
No.
No.

571
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,360
Can you tell them, please, Mel?
Yeah.

572
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,920
Basically, what it is,
being pink makes you feel feminine.

573
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,440
It makes you feel girly.
It makes you feel light.

574
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,440
It makes you feel
like a pretty fairy, basically.

575
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,680
And then...and then a blue person
makes you feel that way

576
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,920
because they take sort of the weight
off your shoulders.

577
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,160
(SOOTHING MUSIC)

578
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,880
Is Luke someone who is a blue guy

579
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,200
that makes you feel pink?

580
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,280
If you asked me a few weeks ago,
I'd have been like,

581
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,320
no, Luke doesn't make me
feel pink at all

582
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,760
because I wasn't
sort of in my feminine...

583
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:32,880
Yeah.
..energy.

584
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,480
I was really in that
sort of negative energy

585
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,520
and negative mind-set.

586
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:41,160
But, yeah, Luke is definitely
a blue guy.

587
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,040
(JOYOUS MUSIC)

588
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,120
That's cute.

589
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,400
Wow.

590
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,720
I gather you two haven't been
living together this week.

591
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,800
No, we haven't.

592
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,960
Are you ready to make
that next step of moving back in?

593
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,720
I'd be...I'd be fine to do it.

594
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,480
I just feel like I'd want to move in

595
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,640
if I felt wanted to-to move in.

596
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:05,720
Yeah. Right.

597
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,200
I-I definitely do feel nervous
about it.

598
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,680
We've actually developed
a great relationship.

599
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,720
What if it just goes bad again?

600
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,680
(SOOTHING MUSIC)

601
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,320
You know what?
You'll never know until you do it.

602
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,520
I mean, the experiment is all about
getting out of your comfort zone.

603
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,520
Yeah, that's really right.
Moving forward.

604
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,600
You may as well keep going
with that process

605
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,680
because it's working.

606
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,920
Exciting. We got a plan.

607
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,200
Yeah, we do got a plan.

608
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,240
How about we go to a decision?
Yeah, let's just do that.

609
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,720
I'll say first.

610
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,040
Well, it's an obvious one.

611
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,800
I wrote "Stay"
because we've had such a good week.

612
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,720
Yeah.
So, it makes sense.

613
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,120
(APPLAUSE)

614
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,320
I also think that
because we've had such a good week,

615
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,800
it'd be silly for me
to write anything else but "Stay."

616
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:54,880
Look at that.
Love that.

617
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,040
(APPLAUSE)
Good stuff.

618
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,120
Thanks, guys.

619
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,760
Can I also say it's a great example
for the rest of the group

620
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,160
that they were critical.

621
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,840
They were ready to break up
last week.

622
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,040
A week on, look at them now.

623
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,960
So, it is possible to turn it around
if you invest and go with it.

624
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,280
I see great things.
Thank you.

625
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,520
Uh, go back to the group.

626
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,080
I can't wait to see you next week.

627
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,000
Me too. Cheers.
Likewise. Thank you.

628
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,120
Enjoy.

629
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,960
(APPLAUSE)

630
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,320
Still to come,
a surprising breakthrough.

631
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,520
I kissed him.
Oh.

632
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,440
Yay.

633
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:36,520
And later...

634
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,600
Did you say that, Danny?
Absolutely not. Of course not.

635
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,760
Danny doubles down.

636
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,360
You know what you said.

637
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,040
Why the hell would I make...
Gia. Gia. Gia.

638
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,320
..stop. I'm talking.

639
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,400
(TENSE MUSIC)

640
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,960
Alright. Let's get our next couple
up on the couch.

641
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,000
(TENSE MUSIC)

642
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,960
Rebecca and Steve.

643
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,240
(APPLAUSE)
You guys. Kudos.

644
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,600
Alright.

645
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,240
Help us understand what's going on.

646
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:14,720
I don't know where to start, John.

647
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,000
Like, I'm... OK. Sorry, guys.

648
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,720
Um, I don't wanna, uh...
Take your time.

649
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,520
Tell us what particularly
has been disappointing for you.

650
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,800
I came into this experiment
wanting to find love.

651
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,680
I was open. I've been authentic.

652
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,280
I was here
for all the right reasons.

653
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,840
When I first met Steve,
like, we had our connection.

654
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,200
I was thought the experts
have got it right.

655
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,280
We had a great wedding,
great honeymoon.

656
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,680
As soon as I started saying to him,
"I need this from you,"

657
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,400
re-voicing my needs and my wants...

658
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,440
And what...
..telling him how...

659
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:50,480
I'd say, please let me finish.

660
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,520
Sorry. Sorry. Sorry, I was just...

661
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,560
Yeah.

662
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,560
(TENSE MUSIC)

663
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,880
I felt unheard in the relationship.

664
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,920
I felt like every time
I tried to voice how I was feeling,

665
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,200
I was getting shut down
and spoken over.

666
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,040
I feel like he wasn't vulnerable.
He didn't show up for me.

667
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,480
And I just feel that I've been
matched with someone

668
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,680
that hasn't been all in with me.

669
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320
How hasn't he been all in?

670
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,840
He's too concerned

671
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,080
about what everyone else's
perceptions of Steve.

672
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,240
The Intimacy Week,
we didn't do a lot of it.

673
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,560
And when I ask him, why not?

674
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,120
It's like fruit salad,
just lip service.

675
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,320
It didn't make any sense.

676
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,320
Steve, what do you say to that?

677
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:33,560
I just disagree.

678
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,600
We did have, again,

679
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,360
what I would consider to be
a personality clash on...

680
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,720
I just stop you there.

681
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,080
(TENSE MUSIC)

682
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,560
You use the term personality clash.

683
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,240
Yeah.
That's a cop out?

684
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,600
What do you mean by that, though?

685
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,480
I tell you what I mean.
Yeah, please.

686
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,640
What is the clash?
What is it about the personality?

687
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,040
It's a very general term.
It's a throwaway comment.

688
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,600
Get specific.

689
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,160
Um, the discussion
started off being around.

690
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,200
You know, look, I'm sure a lot
of people have, you know,

691
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,920
not come in here with, um, you know,

692
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,880
knowing that they're gonna
find the one.

693
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,840
Surely, they've got, you know,
other motives and whatnot.

694
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:13,920
Rebecca said, not me.

695
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:18,120
I came in here for love only,
and, you know, it became very fiery.

696
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:23,280
Both of us, we don't communicate
well in those circumstances.

697
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:29,000
There's a complete disconnect
with how Rebecca sees a situation

698
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:30,520
and how I see it.

699
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,200
To be honest, there's no winning
or losing in that conversation.

700
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,240
It's almost like...
OK.

701
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,120
So, you're...
It's not about personality.

702
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,400
Well, or maybe it was just...

703
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:39,440
It's actually
about a communication style.

704
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,480
Yeah. OK.

705
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,440
Everyone has different patterns.
Yep.

706
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,000
But they can certainly be adjusted.

707
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,000
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

708
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,840
After the last Commitment Ceremony
where I said to you,

709
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,200
"You've got your partner
sitting there saying,

710
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,520
I don't feel desired."

711
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,120
Mm-hm.
"Do something about it."

712
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,400
Mm-hm.
What have you done?

713
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,840
Um, I got in touch with Rebecca, um,

714
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,720
and invited her to lunch
on the Sunday.

715
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,520
Rebecca decided to go out
with other people on the Saturday

716
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,320
and I got cancelled
on-on Sunday morning.

717
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,880
It emotionally sets you back
a little bit,

718
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,560
and so, we didn't get to bond

719
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,600
when other people
had some time together.

720
00:34:16,720 --> 00:34:19,200
And then we had a good Monday
when we came back together.

721
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:20,240
I think all came good again.

722
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:21,480
So, Steve, what about
after the Commitment Ceremony?

723
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,520
Yes.

724
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,040
You had the ability...
Oh, we...

725
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,280
..to Monday, Tuesday, today.

726
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,640
What have you done?

727
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,920
Well, Tuesday,
we had the dinner party,

728
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,720
so, we didn't really...

729
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,360
Steve, since you last saw me
sitting on this couch...

730
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,240
Yes. Yeah.
..it's a very simple question.

731
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:44,400
And I thought I was trying to...

732
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,480
Have you take her out for coffee,
a walk...

733
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:46,520
Yes.

734
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:47,760
..woken up saying
how was your sleep

735
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,120
and shown the nice gestures yet?

736
00:34:49,240 --> 00:34:50,560
Because I haven't heard it.
Always.

737
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,080
Oh.

738
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,120
I've-I have done that.

739
00:34:53,240 --> 00:34:55,400
Rebecca,
has he done any little favours

740
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,680
to show that he's interested?

741
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:57,720
No, Scott. He hasn't.
There's your answer.

742
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,800
I get up in the morning.
I give you kisses.

743
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:00,840
That's right, you make...
I get you a coffee.

744
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:01,880
He's made me...

745
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,920
I say, can I go get you coffee

746
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:03,960
and bring you takeaways.

747
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:04,960
Can I say?

748
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,040
He made me, he has made
me coffee a couple of times.

749
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,920
What have you done
to make her feel desired?

750
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,400
Apart from the organising lunch,
nothing.

751
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,160
Why?

752
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,760
Because I'm not romantically,

753
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,280
you know,
wanting to lead Rebecca on.

754
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,680
And I was kind
of given the impression

755
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,280
I now have to be a bit more genuine

756
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,160
with myself and with Rebecca.

757
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,640
And so, after meeting
with Alessandra,

758
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,880
it did make me think,
be honest with myself.

759
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,360
I'm gonna take you back
to the first time

760
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,160
you and I met via video.

761
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,200
Yes.

762
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,960
And we had a pretty
open conversation

763
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,280
about your past relationships.

764
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:42,320
Yeah, we do.

765
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,360
And the fact
that you described yourself

766
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,440
as being pretty selfish
in past relationships.

767
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,480
Mm.

768
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,120
It was all about you and your needs
as opposed to your partner.

769
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:50,760
You made yourself a bit of a promise

770
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,360
was that you were gonna
come into this experiment...

771
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:53,400
Mm.

772
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,800
..and try things differently.

773
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:55,960
Mm-hm.

774
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,000
How do you feel about that now?

775
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,240
I think I've tried very, you know,
in my own way I think I've tried,

776
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,440
and I think I've tried to progress,
um, faster than...

777
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,240
You think you've been
selfish in this relationship?

778
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,280
No, I don't think I've been selfish.
No, I don't.

779
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,600
I've-I've always asked Rebecca
to be herself.

780
00:36:12,720 --> 00:36:14,800
I said, "You do you." You know?

781
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,160
Look at her now.

782
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,800
Sorry.
Look at her now.

783
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,480
What's that?
Look at her.

784
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,560
Yes. I know.

785
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,760
And I've been literally with Rebecca
for the last few weeks

786
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,760
and I've always been there
for her when she's feeling this way.

787
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,800
What could I say?
It's all lip service.

788
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:30,840
But when I say
I've been there for you but...

789
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,880
It's all fruit salad
and Caesar salad

790
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:32,920
and Greek salad all mixed in.

791
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,200
Alright. Alright.
It really is. It really is.

792
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,480
Steve, you tell us now,

793
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,280
have you contributed to the problems
in this relationship?

794
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:43,800
Oh, I miscommunicate with her

795
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:44,960
as much as she miscommunicates
with me.

796
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,000
It's half-half.

797
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,960
I want you to stop talking
about her because...

798
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,120
How?
..that's a real problem.

799
00:36:49,240 --> 00:36:50,200
OK.

800
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,400
Spotlight is on you.
Yep.

801
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,520
What do you do
to contribute to the problems

802
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,960
in this relationship, you alone?

803
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,000
(TENSE MUSIC)

804
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,720
I don't know. I-I...

805
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,960
That's why I ask you
because you should know.

806
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:14,880
What we hear now is a guy
that's sitting there going,

807
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,320
"You know, I'm not selfish.

808
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:18,520
I've given it my all."

809
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,360
I don't think
you have given it your all.

810
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,840
You are not able
to answer the question.

811
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,080
I thought
I had answered the question.

812
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,120
You haven't. You've just said...

813
00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:31,760
I-I don't know the other reasons.

814
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,040
So, from your expert point of view,

815
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,040
tell me what you've seen
that I'm not doing...

816
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:37,320
I need you...I need you to tell me.
..and what I need to do.

817
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,360
I'm not sure.

818
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,440
I can't give you the answer...

819
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,600
other than the fact
that I thought I was trying.

820
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:50,560
This is a very important time
for you, Steve, because...

821
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,040
this moment, you can actually start
looking inwards.

822
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,960
What else might be a problem...

823
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,560
in terms of this relationship
and what you contribute to it?

824
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,000
No. Obviously, I've said no. So...

825
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,920
If we pivot
and go to the Intimacy Week,

826
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,000
there was an exchange
between you and Alessandra?

827
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,040
Yes.

828
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,520
Can you tell me
why it is that you became

829
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,480
so fixed against what Alessandra
was telling you about?

830
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,400
Um, I don't know if I-I wasn't sure

831
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,000
if I was fixed against
what you were saying.

832
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:31,120
To refresh your memory,
what actually happened,

833
00:38:31,240 --> 00:38:33,840
you had a very difficult time
listening to an opinion

834
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,640
that differed from yours.

835
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:40,000
It was about not Steve's desires
and Steve's space

836
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,600
but understanding
what Rebecca wanted.

837
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:45,160
And you pushed back hard,
you spoke over me,

838
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,920
you disrespected me with your words

839
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,160
and also with the tone of voice
that you spoke.

840
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,720
You were skirting around issues.

841
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,920
And, of course, when you don't
give clear concise answers,

842
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,560
I will push back and try
and get something precise from you,

843
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,400
and that was impossible
to get from you.

844
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,720
And tonight,
it's been pretty impossible again

845
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,320
for you to give
any precise definitions

846
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,520
to these things that sound
very much like lip service.

847
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,640
OK.

848
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,880
Rebecca has been very forthright

849
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,480
about liking the possibility
of creating something with you,

850
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,640
wanting to move forward,

851
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,880
really championing and cheering
for that,

852
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,360
and you putting the brakes.

853
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,800
And if it's not at your pace,
then it becomes a problem.

854
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,960
Every time she's tried to speak up,
it has become a problem.

855
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,440
So, I think you have a little
reflection to do

856
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,120
as to where this miscommunication
really stems from

857
00:39:41,240 --> 00:39:43,160
and how it is that you get here.

858
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,440
Hmm. OK.

859
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:52,320
OK.

860
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,880
Well, look, think it's time
that we go to a decision

861
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:56,360
with the two of you.

862
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,080
Steve.
Sure.

863
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,480
Um, we started off
fantastically well.

864
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,320
And, yeah, and since then
it's been going downhill.

865
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,360
I chose to, uh, to Leave.

866
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,440
And to you, Rebecca.
OK.

867
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,280
Whoa. Thank you for finding me
a match.

868
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,640
It hasn't quite worked out.

869
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,920
Came here for love
and I didn't get what I wanted.

870
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,120
I'm not gonna settle
and waste any more of my time.

871
00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:29,160
I wrote "Leave" with a kiss.

872
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,720
I think this experience
is gonna bring up

873
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,880
some opportunities for reflection.

874
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,800
I really hope that there are some,

875
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,120
you know,
really valuable lessons here

876
00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:47,080
that you can take on board in terms
of moving into this next chapter.

877
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,520
You both know what you need...

878
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,120
Yeah.
..in your next relationships.

879
00:40:50,240 --> 00:40:51,440
Go out and get it.

880
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,920
Thank you. Thank you so much.
Thank you all of you.

881
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,640
And, Alessandra, I'm, I never
meant to, you know, any,

882
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,080
you know, speaking over you.

883
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:59,200
I apologise.

884
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,000
It was, um,
something I need to get better at,

885
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,200
and that's something
I've taken on board.

886
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:04,240
I really have.

887
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,800
So, um...
I appreciate that.

888
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,880
..I thank you for the feedback. OK?

889
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,640
Well, there's apologies
going around.

890
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,520
Is there an apology for me for being
robbing me off the experience?

891
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:13,800
I-I-I've enjoyed
being doing this with you.

892
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,480
You know that. We've had...
Yeah.

893
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:16,520
..some great times.

894
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,560
We have.
It's been amazing.

895
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,600
I just, anyway.

896
00:41:18,720 --> 00:41:20,400
It's not the ideal finish but...

897
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:21,720
Yeah.
..we've been doing well.

898
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,640
Yeah. It's been (BLEEP) fine.

899
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,960
(TENSE MUSIC)

900
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,920
Well, let's get our
next couple up on the couch.

901
00:41:39,240 --> 00:41:41,560
Grayson and Julia.
Yay.

902
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,400
(APPLAUSE)
Hello.

903
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:44,960
You look so amazing.

904
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,560
Aw.
I need this outfit of you.

905
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:51,640
Well, I've gotta say
the energy between the two of you

906
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,600
is very different from last week.

907
00:41:53,720 --> 00:41:54,640
Yeah.
OK.

908
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,880
What's going on?
(CHUCKLES)

909
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,920
Yeah.

910
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,640
So, um, this morning, I kissed him.

911
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:02,680
Oh.

912
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,440
Hey.
Woo!

913
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,800
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

914
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,800
Grayson seems happy about that.

915
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,720
Yeah.

916
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,640
Well, what did the kiss
do to your relationship?

917
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,960
Yeah. It was very unexpected for me.

918
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,560
I was like, this isn't gonna happen

919
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,520
unless I let him know
that I'm open to that.

920
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:21,560
Yes.

921
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:22,960
And so that felt really necessary
for me

922
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,000
to be the-the one to-to do that.

923
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,600
And I think it was necessary
for Grayson

924
00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:31,560
to-to have that very clear cue
that this is now OK.

925
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,560
Yeah.
Yeah.

926
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,320
So, in having the kiss,

927
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,120
did you feel there was chemistry

928
00:42:37,240 --> 00:42:38,680
between the two of you
in that sense?

929
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,000
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah-yeah.

930
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,640
I love the way
both your faces light up

931
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:42,720
when you talk about this kiss.

932
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,320
(LAUGHS)
Which is lovely to see.

933
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,520
And with that being the case,
let's get to the decision.

934
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,520
You first, Grayson.
Me? Alright.

935
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,240
Stay or leave?

936
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,320
I'm fully in this,
so, I'm gonna "Stay."

937
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,520
Good.
(APPLAUSE)

938
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,480
Uh, Jules, what are you gonna do?
Stay or leave?

939
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,760
So, I've written "Stay."
Right.

940
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,480
Oh, a little love heart.
So, he's still more snogging.

941
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,080
(APPLAUSE)

942
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:07,160
Well done, guys.
Good stuff.

943
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,040
(APPLAUSE)

944
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,080
Alright.
Let's get our next couple up.

945
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:13,600
Rachel and Steven.

946
00:43:13,720 --> 00:43:15,000
Woo.
(CHEERS AND APPLAUSE)

947
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,840
I love it. Let's go.

948
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,600
Hello.

949
00:43:18,720 --> 00:43:22,680
Hello, you two.
Hello. Johnny, how are you going?

950
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,240
Got a story to tell you.
Yeah.

951
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,920
So, tell us about this Intimacy Week

952
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,480
because clearly it had an impact
on you in a positive way.

953
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:38,280
I rejected a simple kiss
on that ultimate fantasy

954
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,920
and essentially rejected her.

955
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,160
She was standing there vulnerable,
and I hurt her feelings,

956
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,080
and I felt terrible
how I made Rachel feel.

957
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,360
When it comes to intimacy,
I'm a bit of a dope

958
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,600
when it comes to it,

959
00:43:54,720 --> 00:43:58,760
but I took Alessandra's advice
on very seriously

960
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:04,320
through the workshop, and I'm really
leaning into the tasks now.

961
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,520
Intimacy Week has made me feel

962
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,480
a lot more comfortable
around Rachel.

963
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,800
Fantastic.

964
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,680
Uh, it's a step forward for me,
and it's a massive step forward.

965
00:44:15,720 --> 00:44:18,520
Right after your workshop,
Alessandra, he turns up at my door,

966
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:19,920
12-long stem roses.

967
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,080
Aw.
Yes.

968
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,680
What's a girl to do but swoon?

969
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,880
Like, I'm sorry.
She was swooning like a schoolgirl.

970
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,560
What I love is that you persevere
and move closer to her.

971
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,680
There are times
when you drop the ball

972
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,240
but what you don't do is give up.

973
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,720
And you can see him doing that.
I can.

974
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,880
That's why...
Look, it's why I'm still here.

975
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,240
It's why I moved back.
Yeah.

976
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,640
'Cause I could feel him trying.

977
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:46,720
I could feel it.

978
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,040
So, you did move back in?
I'm back in the house.

979
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:50,080
You're back in.

980
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:51,240
And I was very happy to be back.

981
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,040
And how's it been?
It's been good.

982
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,320
OK.
It's been really good.

983
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:55,480
That's when the kissing started.

984
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,920
Made her blush. So... (CHUCKLES)

985
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,720
I made her blush a bit too, I think.

986
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,440
Um, I don't know. I thought
that was a sweet-sweet moment.

987
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,480
Well, that's nice.
That's a nice way to describe it.

988
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:09,560
Yeah.

989
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,200
So, Rachel, how do you feel
about Steven right now?

990
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,000
I like Steven.
The crush grows for me.

991
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,960
The feelings are growing.
The crush grows?

992
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,080
The crush grows. It grows.
Getting bigger.

993
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,280
And that's
because he's trying with me.

994
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,680
Alright. Let's go to the decision.

995
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:28,920
Rachel.

996
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,400
I said to Steven that I'd give him
a chance to show me

997
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,960
that he's trying, and he has.

998
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,200
I'm staying.

999
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,280
(APPLAUSE)
Love it. Fantastic.

1000
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,800
Steven, over to you.

1001
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,440
I don't wanna be a quitter.

1002
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,560
I know I'm gonna stuff up along
the way, and I hope I don't stuff up

1003
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:45,640
much-much more because I've...

1004
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,000
Stop. Oh. (CHUCKLES)

1005
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,840
..I've done
a few stuff ups, and, you know,

1006
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,880
hopefully, next week
is a much better week

1007
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,680
and I can come in and go,
I aced it and I wrote "Stay."

1008
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:54,720
Yes.
(APPLAUSE)

1009
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,320
Oh.
Yes.

1010
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,200
You are gonna make mistakes,
both of you.

1011
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,240
Yeah.
Don't quit.

1012
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,000
I'm not gonna be perfect,
I'm just gonna try here.

1013
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,400
And if I make mistakes,
I'll pick myself up,

1014
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:07,920
I'll keep going forward.

1015
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,400
Thank you, guys.
Thank you all so much.

1016
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,680
Well done. Good on you.
Good work.

1017
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,080
Thanks, John.
Beautiful, Rachel.

1018
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,120
Thank you.

1019
00:46:16,240 --> 00:46:19,120
(RAIN POURS)

1020
00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:21,560
(TENSE MUSIC)

1021
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,840
Alright.
Let's get our next couple up.

1022
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:25,000
Gia and Scott.

1023
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:26,400
Oh, we're here.
Let's go.

1024
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,440
(TENSE MUSIC)

1025
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,600
Good evening.
Evening.

1026
00:46:34,720 --> 00:46:35,680
Hello.

1027
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:38,600
Where do you wanna start?

1028
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,240
Firstly, I wanna apologise
to the entire group.

1029
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:47,000
Um, yesterday,
my behaviour was really not OK.

1030
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,800
(SAD MUSIC)

1031
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,720
Especially, I wanna focus
on Alissa and David though

1032
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:52,920
because I really,

1033
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,960
I came at you and I didn't
have enough information to go off.

1034
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,280
I went crazy and I really want you
to know that I am genuinely sorry.

1035
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,320
And I think you guys are like this,

1036
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,080
and I'm-I'm really happy
for you guys.

1037
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:07,920
And Stella as well.

1038
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,320
I'm sorry about last night joining
in with Brook and,

1039
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,600
like, going over the top like it
was just not OK, my behaviour.

1040
00:47:13,720 --> 00:47:14,920
So, sorry.

1041
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:18,160
Well, thank you for that, Gia.

1042
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:23,320
Your behaviour last night was ugly.

1043
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,080
It was mean.

1044
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,960
This is something
that you need to take on board.

1045
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,480
I cannot stress that enough.

1046
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,160
Yeah.

1047
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,720
I am curious to know
where that came from

1048
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:36,760
'cause I haven't seen that before.

1049
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:37,800
Yeah.

1050
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,920
Um, I've had a quite
an emotional few days.

1051
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,240
Like, we had our first argument.

1052
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,280
Oh.
Yeah.

1053
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,320
Um...

1054
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,920
We're bound to have one.
It was gonna happen.

1055
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,720
But, you know, we went out.

1056
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,680
He was really tired
and wanted to go home.

1057
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:53,960
Obviously, he doesn't drink.

1058
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,360
So, you know, sober person
in a room full of drunk people is,

1059
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,600
like, not always a fun time.

1060
00:47:58,720 --> 00:48:00,840
And I probably should have listened
to him and gone home at 08:00

1061
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,800
when he said and I didn't...

1062
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:03,840
I totally apologise to him.

1063
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,720
I was-I was a kind of,
accountable for my behaviour,

1064
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,560
and it, like, I would never do
that again.

1065
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,040
It, like, made him uncomfortable.

1066
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,520
And what did that do
to the two of you?

1067
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,600
Um...

1068
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,240
in reflection of the weekend,

1069
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,120
it's actually taught me a lot
on a positive note...

1070
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,120
because it's, I've experienced
now social environments

1071
00:48:25,240 --> 00:48:27,960
and just how do we handle
one another around people.

1072
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,720
And I think it was just,
it was more the aftermath,

1073
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,480
you know, a big night the next day,
emotions start coming out.

1074
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,000
And just, you know, some things
hurt me a bit,

1075
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,680
which we communicated with, and I'd,

1076
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,640
I faced it straight away
because it really did hurt me.

1077
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:43,920
What sort of things?

1078
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,480
(TENSE MUSIC)

1079
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:51,640
Just, uh, and it could be
a thing of emotions start coming out

1080
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,600
but words I didn't appreciate was,
"You don't like me,

1081
00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:57,560
you're here for the wrong reasons,
and I can get any guy I want."

1082
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:04,360
Coming up...

1083
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:05,880
I just wanted to do the right thing.

1084
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,200
(TENSE MUSIC)

1085
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,720
I have never experienced
a woman be so vicious

1086
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:12,840
toward other women.

1087
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,360
What the heck?

1088
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,440
(TENSE MUSIC)

1089
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,360
Words I didn't appreciate was...

1090
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,640
"You don't like me,
you're here for wrong reasons

1091
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:30,680
and I can get any guy I want."

1092
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,720
(TENSE MUSIC)

1093
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:37,360
I'm not putting you under the bus,

1094
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:38,880
it's because I really care
about you.

1095
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,480
Wait. You're talking about
what I said when I was drunk?

1096
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:41,640
No, this is the next day.

1097
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,080
(SAD MUSIC)

1098
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,280
And it could be a-a thing of,
you know, it's been a big night.

1099
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:48,320
Yeah.

1100
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,920
You know, words do hurt me,

1101
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,920
and that's kinda
what's taken me a step back.

1102
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,280
Gia, explain to me

1103
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:03,000
why you would say to Scott
that you could get any guy you want?

1104
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,360
(TENSE MUSIC)

1105
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,160
I do tend to self-sabotage.

1106
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,640
If something's going too well,
I find a reason to, like,

1107
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:13,640
push back a bit.

1108
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:14,720
Oh, it's too good.

1109
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,080
Like, it's not, you know,
let me throw some shit at it

1110
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:18,800
and see what happens.

1111
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,680
And you certainly did that. Yeah.
Yeah.

1112
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,880
It was like
self-destructive behaviour.

1113
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,080
So, do you feel like
you're testing him a little bit?

1114
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:27,120
A little bit. Yeah.

1115
00:50:27,240 --> 00:50:29,480
And I know it's bad
but I feel like I am to see, like,

1116
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,000
if he'll hang around.

1117
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:36,840
You're doing these self-sabotage
type of behaviours

1118
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,480
and I'm wondering
what you're scared of.

1119
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,040
I'm like scared to fully let him in

1120
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:43,800
because I'm scared
I'm gonna get hurt.

1121
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:45,520
(SAD MUSIC)

1122
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,200
It's hard for me because,
like, in my previous relationship,

1123
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,800
the wall had to stay up
because I was never protected.

1124
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,920
I-I don't wanna go into this and do
the same thing but it's just,

1125
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,160
it's harder for me to pull the wall
all the way down.

1126
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,680
It's really scary for me
to be honest.

1127
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,320
I can see that.
Yeah.

1128
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,680
What are you afraid
that might happen

1129
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:10,360
if you let the wall down?

1130
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:11,520
That I'll get hurt.

1131
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,560
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

1132
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,800
But if you notice
how I speak to your daughter,

1133
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,960
I speak to your mum, I show efforts,
I'm there every day...

1134
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:24,000
No, you do.
..for you.

1135
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:25,040
Like...

1136
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:26,080
Yeah.

1137
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:27,280
..there's no reason
to not allow me in.

1138
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,160
It's one of the things where, like,

1139
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,680
we're still a little bit
early in the experiment.

1140
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,280
We've now had a hurdle.

1141
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,160
We're... We've had such
a beautiful time.

1142
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,120
Like, I keep saying,

1143
00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:42,600
I'm all in on this and I see
so many more positives.

1144
00:51:42,720 --> 00:51:45,960
Some things that weren't meant
to be said happened.

1145
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,800
And I know you don't mean it
but as long as you're self aware,

1146
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:50,200
I just don't want it happen again.

1147
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,360
But-but it's very...
it's very important

1148
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,480
what you've heard from Gia tonight

1149
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,680
is that she's testing you
not because she doesn't like you

1150
00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,760
but you're also pushing him away.

1151
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:00,880
Yep.

1152
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,960
And so you're on notice with that.

1153
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:04,000
Yep.

1154
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,200
You've got a guy
that adores you right now,

1155
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,440
who fits exactly what you want.

1156
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,720
But if you keep doing
what you're doing,

1157
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,680
he's gonna start to lose interest.

1158
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,720
Gia, how do you feel about Scott?

1159
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,200
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

1160
00:52:22,240 --> 00:52:23,680
I really like Scott.

1161
00:52:24,720 --> 00:52:30,080
Everyone would probably agree,
like, genuine, kind-hearted.

1162
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,800
I've let him in my whole life,
and I mean,

1163
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,000
he's met my daughter on FaceTime.

1164
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,160
Yeah, I don't want it to end
to be honest.

1165
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,600
(SOOTHING MUSIC)

1166
00:52:38,720 --> 00:52:40,640
It's funny because I feel
like we're in a ten-year marriage

1167
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,360
already the way we carry
on our lifestyle and our routine.

1168
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:44,400
You know what I mean?

1169
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:45,440
Like...
Yeah.

1170
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,520
..we wake up in the morning.

1171
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,920
As soon as we get up,
we're both on the other side,

1172
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:49,960
we pull the sheet over.

1173
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:51,640
It starts there,
and it's like we're aligned.

1174
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,200
It makes me feel complete

1175
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,000
because it's like that's
what I was missing

1176
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:56,160
and I just can't stop smiling.

1177
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,120
Let's go to the decision.

1178
00:53:00,240 --> 00:53:01,560
Gia.

1179
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,360
Um, I'm obviously gonna "Stay."
Good.

1180
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:06,960
(APPLAUSE)

1181
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,160
Scott, stay or leave?

1182
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:10,200
'Course I'll "Stay."

1183
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:11,440
(APPLAUSE)
Good.

1184
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,520
Yes.

1185
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,600
Well done.
Well, you've learned a lot.

1186
00:53:15,720 --> 00:53:18,040
You kinda know exactly
what direction you need to go in.

1187
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:19,600
Yep.
Now, let him in.

1188
00:53:19,720 --> 00:53:22,960
I know it's scary but that's
where the fairy tale lies.

1189
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:24,000
Yep.

1190
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,440
And you gotta embrace
it if you want it.

1191
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:26,480
Yep.
Alright.

1192
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:27,600
Back to the group.
Thank you.

1193
00:53:27,720 --> 00:53:28,640
Thank you.
Appreciate it.

1194
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:29,680
Well done, you guys.

1195
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,880
Yew!

1196
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:34,960
Our next couple up on the couch...

1197
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:38,080
Bec and Danny.

1198
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,080
(TENSE MUSIC)

1199
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,120
(APPLAUSE)

1200
00:53:43,240 --> 00:53:44,480
Hi, guys.
Hello.

1201
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:45,560
How are you all?

1202
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,520
We're doing pretty well.
What about you two?

1203
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,080
Not good.

1204
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,280
Bec, you look
like you're really struggling.

1205
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,000
(SAD MUSIC)

1206
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,640
Help us understand what's going on.

1207
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,560
Um, we had like the best week.

1208
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:12,680
Alessandra's Intimacy Week
was amazing for us.

1209
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,800
And then last night,
Gia made a comment to me

1210
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,600
that on Saturday night,
Danny said to her...

1211
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,760
"In the outside world,
you would be the type of girl

1212
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,240
that I would be interested in,
not me."

1213
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:31,800
Did you say that, Danny?

1214
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,800
Absolutely not. Of course not.

1215
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,840
(TENSE MUSIC)

1216
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:38,960
So, I walked off,

1217
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,240
and then he stayed somewhere else
last night.

1218
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,600
And then today when he came in,

1219
00:54:44,720 --> 00:54:46,440
he basically said to me that...

1220
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,600
we've got no trust because...

1221
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,280
because he wants someone

1222
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,800
that's a Bonnie and Clyde
kind of love.

1223
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:02,160
And that because I believed him
for a minute...

1224
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,200
that, basically,
I have to rebuild the trust

1225
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,880
and he doesn't know
what I can do to do that.

1226
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:19,440
Sorry.

1227
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,560
So, Danny, you were saying
that Bec had broken your trust.

1228
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,240
For me, obviously,
when we spoke this morning...

1229
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:40,400
(TENSE MUSIC)

1230
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,320
..there was just like, it threw me

1231
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,080
that she'd even believe a comment
like that.

1232
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,120
(TENSE MUSIC)

1233
00:55:50,720 --> 00:55:53,480
And, Bec, where do you sit on this?

1234
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:55,520
Do you believe Danny at this point?

1235
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,560
(TENSE MUSIC)

1236
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,720
I don't think he would do that
because I know how loyal he is,

1237
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,000
and that's something
that we're basing

1238
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,600
our whole relationship off of.

1239
00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:09,440
And I know I've broken your trust
and I'm sorry.

1240
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:16,000
I was just in a, on a diff...
I-I was a space cadet last night.

1241
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:17,480
I was on a different planet.

1242
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:19,960
It's alright.

1243
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,000
(TENSE MUSIC)

1244
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,600
Absolutely not. You're not gonna
gaslight a woman right now.

1245
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,560
You know what you said.

1246
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,160
Why the hell would I make...
Gia. Gia. Gia.

1247
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:39,640
Stop. I'm talking.

1248
00:56:45,720 --> 00:56:47,920
(RAIN POURS)

1249
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:50,800
(TENSE MUSIC)

1250
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,520
Absolutely not. You're not gonna
gaslight a woman right now.

1251
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:55,880
(TENSE MUSIC)

1252
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,440
You know what you said.

1253
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,120
Why the hell would I make...
Gia. Gia. Gia.

1254
00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:00,440
Stop. I'm talking.

1255
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:03,600
Why would I make this up?

1256
00:57:03,720 --> 00:57:06,240
I'm so happy in my match
and my relationship.

1257
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,120
(TENSE MUSIC)

1258
00:57:08,240 --> 00:57:10,640
You're making her feel like
she can't trust you now,

1259
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:11,680
when you've lied.

1260
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:13,240
(TENSE MUSIC)

1261
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,840
Gia, you have zero credibility.

1262
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,680
I swear on my daughter's life.
Do not lie.

1263
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,600
You and I both know the truth,
and you know what you said.

1264
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,320
And now you're trying
to cover your ass.

1265
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:32,600
Scott, you was there with me
the whole night.

1266
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,080
She wouldn't make that up, dude.

1267
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,240
Gia. Gia.

1268
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,200
No, I'm not going back
and forth on this.

1269
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:40,360
Can I just say one thing?

1270
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,720
Not interested anymore.
You're not interested?

1271
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,640
It's gonna go around and around.
Like, he's never gonna admit it.

1272
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:47,840
He's never gonna.

1273
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,240
He's saying, I lied.
Why would I lie?

1274
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,680
Please get a lie detector test.
Please.

1275
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,080
(TENSE MUSIC)

1276
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,640
So, Danny, you're saying
that Gia's description of you

1277
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:58,720
didn't happen.

1278
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:00,800
That didn't happen. No.

1279
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,840
It's just weird
how no-one else heard it.

1280
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,360
And-and, Bec, if he did say that,

1281
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:11,360
would that be something
you could move past?

1282
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,160
No. No. It's not.

1283
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:17,040
Why is that?

1284
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,960
It's hard for me because
we've had such a good week

1285
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:25,680
where it felt like the connection
was so intense and amazing.

1286
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,320
And I feel like
we've got a real connection.

1287
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:33,240
So, like, for-for, I-I...

1288
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,400
No, I'm not...I'm not...I'm not
gonna believe that.

1289
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,760
I'm not gonna believe it.

1290
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,880
I would be doing our relationship
an injustice

1291
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,160
if I didn't believe him
and respect him.

1292
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:46,720
We're in this relationship.

1293
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:52,880
Do you trust me?

1294
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,080
Yeah, I do.

1295
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:57,840
(TENSE MUSIC)

1296
00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,320
Why do you say that?

1297
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:03,320
Because I'd-I'd, like I do.

1298
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:07,160
I don't think she'd betray me
on no major level.

1299
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,080
It frustrated me.
Do know what I mean?

1300
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,160
But it's not, nothing,
that can't be fixed.

1301
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:13,760
That's why I'm still here.

1302
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:16,920
Alright.

1303
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:22,400
What you're gonna need to do
this week particularly is be kind,

1304
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,160
to have that mind-set.

1305
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,520
That's all you gotta focus on.

1306
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,080
Make sure
you're there for each other.

1307
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,240
We're gonna go to the decision.

1308
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,720
We're gonna start with Danny.
Stay or leave?

1309
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:38,920
Obviously,
it's been a bit of a rough 24 hours

1310
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:40,920
but I still wanna stay
and work through this.

1311
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,520
Good. Good. I like that.

1312
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,520
(APPLAUSE)

1313
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,080
And for you, Bec?

1314
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,480
It's 100% stay,

1315
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,320
and there's a little "Adore u"
next to it.

1316
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:53,600
Thank you.

1317
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:56,760
On that you can go
back to the group.

1318
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,320
Thanks, guys.
Thank you, guys.

1319
00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,360
Oh-huh.

1320
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,440
(APPLAUSE)

1321
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,280
Can I get a kiss, please?

1322
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,000
Next up on the couch,

1323
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,160
Stella and Filip.

1324
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,400
(APPLAUSE)
Woo!

1325
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,000
Hi. How are you going?
Good.

1326
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:21,720
How are you?
Great. How are you?

1327
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:22,760
Yeah. We're going alright.

1328
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:23,840
We're just...yeah.

1329
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,400
Stella, you know, last night was,

1330
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:29,920
you know, pretty intense for you.

1331
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:31,320
(TENSE MUSIC)

1332
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:36,160
Uh, the spotlight hit,
and they came for you.

1333
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,520
(TENSE MUSIC)

1334
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:42,520
I watched closely
to see how you would act

1335
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,800
under that sort
of intense challenge.

1336
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,920
Mm.
And you didn't react.

1337
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:51,280
You stayed very calm...

1338
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:54,600
and you were very mature.

1339
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:55,680
Thank you.

1340
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,000
And it was quite outstanding
to watch.

1341
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,120
Now, you've had some apologies
since then.

1342
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:07,800
Uh, how's that landed?
How do you feel about it?

1343
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,360
The apologies?
Yeah.

1344
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:10,440
Um.

1345
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:15,240
Hmm.

1346
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:18,280
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

1347
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:25,880
Look, apology...

1348
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,200
is worth nothing
without changed behaviour.

1349
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:35,560
So...

1350
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:41,920
unfortunately,
I can't witness changed behaviour

1351
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,320
just yet, if ever.

1352
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,640
I don't hold grudges but, yeah,

1353
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:50,080
you know, apology without
changed behaviour is nothing.

1354
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,960
And what did that do to you,

1355
01:01:56,080 --> 01:02:01,200
Filip, when you saw her in that sort
of situation and how she responded?

1356
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,200
When she's getting
pressed and when, you know,

1357
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,880
when things are not comfortable,
you know, she keeps her cool.

1358
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,720
But I-I just really wanna put it
out there and just say,

1359
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,680
I really respect
how you handled yourself.

1360
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,920
Like, how you talk to people
and approach life,

1361
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,160
I dare say that that's like
your greatest superpower.

1362
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:22,360
She held her own and-and,
like, yeah.

1363
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,320
And now we just choose to,
we're just,

1364
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:25,720
in our own lane
we got the horse blinkers on,

1365
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:26,760
we're just doing our thing.

1366
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:27,800
Yeah.

1367
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,160
You know, like, we're just up
in each other's grill,

1368
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:31,880
having a good time, and it's good.

1369
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:35,680
Stella, how deep
are your feelings for him now?

1370
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:38,040
Um...

1371
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,000
Whatever future holds.
It's good. Yeah.

1372
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:47,600
Yeah. I've never met
a man like him.

1373
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:48,760
Wow.

1374
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,920
How I'm feeling,
it just unlocks so much more

1375
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,320
beauty to my life.

1376
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:59,800
Like, so, as much as it feels
surreal, I feel like, um...

1377
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,360
it was just meant to happen.

1378
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,080
So, are you falling in love?

1379
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,040
I think yeah.
Wow.

1380
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:12,840
I feel very mushy, very vulnerable,

1381
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,280
you know,
and that obviously means...

1382
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,240
that obviously means that, you know.

1383
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,240
So, yeah.

1384
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,960
What about you, Filip?
Do you feel the same way?

1385
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,040
Um...

1386
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,680
She knows that I definitely
feel a certain way about her.

1387
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:35,560
And, um, yeah, so I can definitely
see myself starting to offer her.

1388
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,000
For sure, definitely.

1389
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,720
Well, I don't think, ah,
there are gonna be any surprises

1390
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:44,760
here but we're gonna go
to the decision.

1391
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:49,000
Stay or leave, and we're gonna go
with you first, Stella.

1392
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,960
Obviously, not a question, right?

1393
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,240
So... (CHUCKLES)
Great.

1394
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:55,520
A mere formality.

1395
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,560
(LAUGHS)
Ah, for you, Filip.

1396
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:02,440
Every week keeps getting better
and better with you, no doubt.

1397
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,640
Uh, and I'm looking forward
to the next one,

1398
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,480
so I'm going to write, "Stay."

1399
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,160
(APPLAUSE)
Love it, guys.

1400
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:11,360
Off you go.

1401
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:12,960
Yay, guys.

1402
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:16,000
(APPLAUSE)
(JOYOUS MUSIC)

1403
01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,120
And last up on the couch...

1404
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:23,440
Brook and Chris.

1405
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:26,280
After you.
Thanks.

1406
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:29,520
Hello, you two.

1407
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:30,760
Hello.

1408
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:33,920
Hi.
Hi.

1409
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:36,800
(TENSE MUSIC)

1410
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,640
Alright. Where do we start
with you two?

1411
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:43,680
(TENSE MUSIC)

1412
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:45,880
Oh, gosh.

1413
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,720
(TENSE MUSIC)

1414
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,080
(RAIN POURS)

1415
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:03,720
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

1416
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,160
Alright.
Where do we start with you two?

1417
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:10,920
Oh, gosh.

1418
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:15,800
Um, before we start,
I just wanna say,

1419
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:20,240
um, especially to Alissa, Stella,

1420
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,880
I'm extremely sorry for my actions
last night.

1421
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:29,720
I feel so much guilt and, um,
you know, regret today.

1422
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:30,800
Um...

1423
01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:35,200
I, you know,
I did take it too far last night.

1424
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:36,280
Um...

1425
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:39,960
Um, there's no excuse
for that behaviour,

1426
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,680
and I'm really sorry I took it
too far and I shouldn't have.

1427
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:44,080
So, I'm sorry.

1428
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,840
(TENSE MUSIC)

1429
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,280
(BLOWS RASPBERRY)

1430
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:02,520
Well, just on that, Brook,

1431
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,480
why did you react like that
at the dinner party?

1432
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,000
Um, I think for me walking in,

1433
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:09,840
there was a lot of things
that I was a little bit upset

1434
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:10,920
with that had happened...

1435
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,480
and there was things
that I wanted to vocalise.

1436
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,720
But my emotions got
the better of me,

1437
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:18,280
and I came out and attacked.

1438
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,920
Um, no-one's perfect.
I know I'm definitely not perfect.

1439
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,320
Um, that's not who I am.

1440
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,560
I don't even do
that in the outside world.

1441
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:30,640
So, I was like,
why did I do that in here?

1442
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,920
I mean, I can only apologise
and take accountability.

1443
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:37,040
So...

1444
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:39,840
(BLOWS RASPBERRY)

1445
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:41,960
..I wasn't even gonna
be there to start with.

1446
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:43,000
Um...

1447
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,840
Well, just on that, Brook,
you decided to up and leave.

1448
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:46,920
Yeah.

1449
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,400
Take us there.
What was that all about?

1450
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:54,360
Um, since the video,
I've had my guard up still.

1451
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:58,040
I had tried to let it go down.
Um, I felt really sad.

1452
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,760
I think also sad
because I know how hard

1453
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:05,240
Chris is trying as well um, to,
you know, get us progressing.

1454
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,680
But in the same time, there's things
in actions that Chris has done

1455
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:11,000
that I can't move past.

1456
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,000
As much as I've got a lot of work
to do on myself, um, you know,

1457
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:15,120
Chris and I have discussed,

1458
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,840
he's got a lot of work to do
on himself as well.

1459
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:19,360
We get along like a house on fire.

1460
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,080
We enjoy each other's company
but it's friends.

1461
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:25,960
Chris, if I jump in,

1462
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:28,360
what impact did it have on you
when Brook left?

1463
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:30,720
I just...
It was just a little bit rushed,

1464
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:33,520
and that was probably the only part
that sort of made me

1465
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:34,840
a little bit uneasy
but-but saying that again...

1466
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:36,000
Did it hurt?

1467
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,320
Not...not...not hurt, no.

1468
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:43,040
It wasn't like I was blind sided
in any means.

1469
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:47,960
What would be the feeling?

1470
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:51,080
Just the feeling of that void
that was left.

1471
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,160
And did you feel rejected?

1472
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:55,200
No.

1473
01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:56,720
Not really rejected

1474
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:59,160
purely because I knew
to get to where we are now

1475
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,040
has been mostly my fault.

1476
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:05,200
I know that Brook
is-is an amazing person

1477
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,520
and-and giving
as-as much as she can.

1478
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:13,680
I know...I know that I've been
more or less the problem in this.

1479
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,800
So, I've never...I've never
once felt blind sided by Brook.

1480
01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:21,160
Thank you.

1481
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:24,200
(TENSE MUSIC)

1482
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:29,480
Chris, do you have
romantic feelings for Brook?

1483
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,440
Um, Just I've gown,

1484
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:34,960
I've got...I've got feelings
for Brook.

1485
01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:37,120
Yes.
Romantic ones?

1486
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,080
What-what defines romantic?

1487
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,080
Well, more than a friend.

1488
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,080
Obviously, I care. I care...I care
a lot about her. Yeah.

1489
01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:50,560
If she was interested
in exploring that with you,

1490
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:52,360
is that something
that you'd be keen to do?

1491
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,840
I think...I think throughout
the experiment,

1492
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:58,560
we've had issues obviously
with the-the video

1493
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:00,000
and things like that.

1494
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,160
That it's-it's gotten Brook
to this point where she,

1495
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,720
her-her guard is up,
and she just doesn't really see,

1496
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:08,360
especially in this experiment,
anything progressing with us.

1497
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,760
I know exactly how she feels
towards me

1498
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:14,280
and towards this whole experiment.

1499
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:15,320
So, it means I feel...

1500
01:09:15,440 --> 01:09:16,960
How does she feel towards you?

1501
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:18,040
She knows she's got a lot of care

1502
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:22,600
and...and...and emotional
respect for me.

1503
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,920
We just know
that it won't work in here.

1504
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:27,480
But I'm-I'm more at the point
where I'm like,

1505
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:29,080
it's not that it won't work in here.

1506
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:30,720
It's the fact that it's like,

1507
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,320
it won't work on the outside either,
Chris.

1508
01:09:33,440 --> 01:09:34,400
(CLEARS THROAT)

1509
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,440
I'm not saying like
we're ending this

1510
01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:39,280
and we're gonna be 100%
on the outside.

1511
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:40,320
Yeah.
Like, that's not it.

1512
01:09:40,440 --> 01:09:41,360
No. No. It's more...

1513
01:09:41,480 --> 01:09:42,400
Like, you're go off
and live your life.

1514
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:44,040
Yeah.
Do better for you.

1515
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:45,160
You work on yourself.

1516
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,600
If you wanna do whatever
you wanna do, do that.

1517
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:49,360
And I'll do the same with me.
Yeah.

1518
01:09:49,480 --> 01:09:51,920
You know, we have such
a beautiful friendship.

1519
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:53,680
And there's things and actions
that Chris has done

1520
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:55,640
that I can't move past.

1521
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:59,840
I have had to hold your hand
the last couple of weeks.

1522
01:09:59,960 --> 01:10:01,360
I have to ask you to apologise

1523
01:10:01,480 --> 01:10:03,920
to people and, like,
things like that, and I'm not,

1524
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:06,160
I didn't come here
to hold your hand.

1525
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,160
And in my life, I've always
had to hold my own hand.

1526
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,200
And so I want my hand
to be held now.

1527
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:13,280
Which is fair.

1528
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,440
You alright?

1529
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,240
And, Brook, why-why did you
come back?

1530
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:25,000
Um, I mean, I left, and within,
like, two hours of being home

1531
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,680
as much as I was enjoying the sun
and the Gold Coast,

1532
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,080
I felt guilty for leaving Chris.

1533
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:31,880
I had guilt that I'd left,
and I was like,

1534
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:35,320
I need to get back there, and so,
that's why I decided to come back.

1535
01:10:35,440 --> 01:10:37,440
(TENSE MUSIC)

1536
01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:39,800
I just wanted to do the right thing.

1537
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:46,920
Just whatever.

1538
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:48,040
(GROANS)

1539
01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:53,760
Can I share
an observation with you, Brook.

1540
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:57,120
So, you're saying that,
you know, you felt guilty

1541
01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:59,560
about-about leaving Chris,
so, you wanted to come back.

1542
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:03,800
But observing you coming
into the dinner party...

1543
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:05,000
Mm.

1544
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:07,040
..you quickly acknowledged him

1545
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,720
and then shifted your focus
to the rest of the room.

1546
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:10,800
Mm.

1547
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:13,800
And we didn't see you
interacting with Chris much.

1548
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,880
Could you see how it might
have looked like you came back

1549
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:18,240
to have a go at people?

1550
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,000
100%.

1551
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,720
(SAD MUSIC)

1552
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:24,920
Why do you think you did that?

1553
01:11:26,480 --> 01:11:29,680
Why did I not talk to Chris
at the beginning?

1554
01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:30,760
Yeah.

1555
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,840
Obviously, yeah, got carried away.

1556
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,120
So, at the last Commitment Ceremony

1557
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,760
when we were here,

1558
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,600
you had some issues with the way
Chris spoke about women

1559
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:47,680
in his audition...

1560
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:48,800
Mm-hm.
..video.

1561
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:51,480
I guess I'm just reflecting
on last night

1562
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:52,560
and observing you, Brook.

1563
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,560
I know and I've taken
full accountability and...

1564
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,600
And the way that you spoke to women.

1565
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,680
Oh.

1566
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,120
Can you see
how that feels a little bit at odds

1567
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:03,240
with the attitude you're having
toward Chris last week.

1568
01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:04,280
100%.

1569
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:06,720
And I get that you're sitting here
and saying that but I'm like,

1570
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:10,160
also, it was a tough week,
and I wasn't feeling myself.

1571
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,600
Um, you know,
it was a difficult situation.

1572
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,440
Like, there's been a few things
that I've just kind of struggled

1573
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:18,120
to get past in this experiment...

1574
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,480
(BLOWS RASPBERRY)

1575
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,960
..but I've still gone out
of my way to go and apologise.

1576
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:24,480
Sorry. Can I just jump in there?

1577
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:28,040
I've gotta say in all my years

1578
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:29,920
working on 'Married at First Sight',

1579
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:33,440
I have never experienced a woman

1580
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,240
be so vicious toward other women.

1581
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:38,360
Mm.

1582
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,360
(PENSIVE MUSIC)

1583
01:12:48,480 --> 01:12:51,120
In all my years working
on 'Married at First Sight',

1584
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:54,720
I have never experienced a woman

1585
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,600
be so vicious toward other women.

1586
01:12:58,680 --> 01:12:59,720
Mm.

1587
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,560
It was relentless.

1588
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,120
Mm.

1589
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:10,320
And to continue doing
that for several hours

1590
01:13:10,440 --> 01:13:14,200
without barely taking a breath,
it was vicious.

1591
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:16,760
Mm.

1592
01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,800
(TENSE MUSIC)

1593
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,320
I'm gonna go to the toilet quickly.

1594
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:33,000
What the heck?

1595
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:36,760
I'm just going to the loo.

1596
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,120
(TENSE MUSIC)

1597
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:09,320
But you've just got to...

1598
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,920
(TENSE MUSIC)

1599
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:37,080
(HUMS MUSIC)

1600
01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:50,680
No, I think Brook's gone.

1601
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:52,000
I don't think she's coming back.

1602
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:56,760
Hopefully not.

1603
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:27,760
(TENSE MUSIC)

1604
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:41,720
Yeah. Once Brook gets back.

1605
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:53,840
Yeah.

1606
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,680
And she was like, see you later.

1607
01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:57,880
She knew they were about
to get into her and she went drunk.

1608
01:15:58,000 --> 01:15:59,040
Yeah. Sure.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

1609
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:00,080
Yeah.

1610
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,040
(TENSE MUSIC)

1611
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:03,600
(CLEARS THROAT)

1612
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:04,680
Chris...

1613
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:07,600
I've got some news.

1614
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:13,560
Unfortunately,
Brook is not coming back.

1615
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:22,160
She's decided to do
a runner... again.

1616
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,800
I'm not... Nah. Nah.

1617
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:35,240
(TENSE MUSIC)

1618
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:50,760
No.

1619
01:16:55,480 --> 01:16:57,320
It just shouldn't have ended
that way for them.

1620
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:04,920
Tomorrow night, the experiment
enters its next exciting chapter.

1621
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:09,840
To fall in love in this experiment
would mean everything.

1622
01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:14,800
Over two big nights,
love will be in the air.

1623
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:17,720
I'm definitely ready to share
my life with someone.

1624
01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:21,680
When three brand new couples
enter the experiment.

1625
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,920
I'm just ready to go all in.

1626
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:28,480
First, we meet the regimented groom

1627
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,360
who's struggling to find true love.

1628
01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,960
If they have children,
that's the first red flag.

1629
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,360
I'm not here to look
after someone else's kids.

1630
01:17:39,480 --> 01:17:40,520
That's not my job.

1631
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:44,040
If the person across from me
today embraces woke culture,

1632
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,000
we'll have a problem.

1633
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,080
Plus.

1634
01:17:50,480 --> 01:17:55,360
This outgoing bride is looking
for her eccentric class clown.

1635
01:17:55,480 --> 01:17:57,960
Shall we get married?
I'm hungry.

1636
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:00,200
But will the groom's wedding vows...

1637
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,040
I've actually got many flaws.

1638
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:03,800
Carpet, tiles, wood.

1639
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:05,920
You name it, baby.

1640
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:07,400
(CROWS CAW)

1641
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,200
..or his mother's
unusual tribute...

1642
01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:12,320
And you turn into a gluttonous pig.

1643
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:15,640
..derail the wedding day.

1644
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:18,680
(TENSE MUSIC)

1645
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:23,920
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